Teaching Positive Character Traits

When my daughters were younger, I loved telling them Bible stories that helped them learn about different character qualities. As they grew older, I often felt they needed a deeper understanding of what these qualities entailed and how they could be best developed. So, I started reading excerpts from the book 'Child Guidance' whenever a negative trait was displayed. Sometimes I'd ask the older one to read a few pages and summarize the text in a paragraph, and the younger one to copy a paragraph about the trait we were addressing. One day, while reading and talking with them, my younger daughter told me she liked it when I read from that book. I was surprised, but very happy, and we decided to use the book in our family worship to study character traits. I then created the following list, which I'm sharing with you to use as God guides you... during worship times or whenever needed.

Self-denial – Child Guidance, pp. 131-133

Joy – Child Guidance, pp. 146-149

Cleanliness – Child Guidance, pp. 106-109

Self-confidence – Child Guidance, pp. 156-158

Courtesy – Child Guidance, pp. 143-145

Selflessness – Child Guidance, pp. 131-133

Diligence – Child Guidance, pp. 128-130

Self-control – Child Guidance, pp. 91-96

Economy – Child Guidance, pp. 134-136

Meticulousness – Child Guidance, pp. 110-112

Frugality – Child Guidance, pp. 134-136

Gratitude – Child Guidance, pp. 146-149

Honesty – Child Guidance, pp. 152-155

Honor – Child Guidance, pp. 156-158

Integrity – Child Guidance, pp. 152-155

Obedience – Child Guidance, pp. 79-88

Industriousness – Child Guidance, pp. 122-127

Orderliness – Child Guidance, pp. 110-112

Perseverance – Child Guidance, pp. 128-130

Thoughtfulness – Child Guidance, pp. 131-133

Helpfulness – 119-121, 36

Purity – Child Guidance, pp. 113-116

Quietness – Child Guidance, pp. 97-100

Regularity – Child Guidance, pp. 110-112

Modesty – Child Guidance, pp. 143-145

Respect – Child Guidance, pp. 97-100

Respect for Others' Property – Child Guidance, pp. 101-102

Reverence – Child Guidance, pp. 97-100

Simplicity – Child Guidance, pp. 139-142

Temperance in Eating – Child Guidance, pp. 378-393, 398

Temperance (sleeping, studying, working, dressing) – Child Guidance, pp. 394-400

Truthfulness – Child Guidance, pp. 150-151

“If Christian mothers present to society children who possess integrity of character, with firm principles and sound morals, they will have accomplished the most important of all missionary work. Properly educated to take their place in society, their children are the greatest evidence of Christianity that can be given to the world.” Child Guidance, 163.